Epic realizations don’t come when you’re having fun.
They dawn when you’re at your lowest with nowhere to go.
What I teach men in The Conscious Cook book and workshops are tools I developed from first-hand, bitter experiences…..
I was just 10 and I had already seen arguing, cheating, physical violence, verbal abuse, and a string of divorces.
In my early 20’s I was constantly in and out of relationships because all I knew was what I’d seen in my childhood.
At 28 my girlfriend cheated on me, and everything fell apart.
That’s when my heart cracked.
But it also broke me wide open to the idea that my love life wasn’t working. And if I had this earnest belief that a deep, sexy, long-term commitment is possible, then I had to acquire the skills I was missing.
I put a stop to the merry-go-round of partners.
AND I COMMITTED TO MYSELF.
Alone and celibate for two years, I rebuilt my life, got to know myself, realized the patterns that I had been doing, and saw what was needed to be my own man – not a result of the faulty childhood programming acquired from my childhood caregivers and society.
I cracked the code and discovered a tried & true system to achieve hot, engaged, long-term relationship success, and now I am happily and ecstatically married for 16 years to the woman of my dreams.
Today, on the basis of my research, curriculum development and book, I am a professional relationship counsellor and sex educator, certified by The American College of Sexologists International (ACS).