Relationship Advice
One purpose…
Tons of pleasure-positive intimacy workshops…
Dozens of endorsements from experts…
Thousands of hours spent teaching…
That’s my legacy in numbers.
Every legacy starts somewhere.
Mine started with cheating and abuse…
One purpose…
Dozens of pleasure-positive intimacy workshops…
Hundreds of endorsements from experts…
Thousands of hours spent coaching…
That’s my legacy in numbers.
Every legacy starts somewhere.
Mine started with lawsuits and abuse.
This is the connection nice guys miss.
They see an unsatisfactory sex life…
They see lying and cheating….
They see plummeting initiative at work….
Yet they don’t see how these “failures” are symptoms of a deep seated problem.
REJECTION.
The rejection they pile upon themselves, their sexual desires and their emotional needs in fear of potential #metoo debacles.
Modern men do the pendulum swing.
They either embody toxic masculine traits because tough boys don’t cry!
Or they hide their male energy leaving their partners uncontained, scattered, and seeking stability outside the relationship.
This is where love goes to die.
This is where sex becomes awkward, hollow, and lacklustre.
This is where the world feels hostile, grey, and unaccepting.
The secret I reveal is (surprisingly) simple.
The key to feeling sexy, confident and sensitive…. The key to pleasing your partner like never before is accepting all of the real you and her, and get a good road map.
Epic realizations don’t come when you’re having fun.
They dawn when you’re at your lowest with nowhere to go.
What I teach men in The Conscious Cook book and workshops are tools I developed from first-hand, bitter experiences…..
I was just 10 and I had already seen arguing, cheating, physical violence, verbal abuse, and a string of divorces.
In my early 20’s I was constantly in and out of relationships because all I knew was what I’d seen in my childhood.
At 28 my girlfriend cheated on me, and everything fell apart.
That’s when my heart cracked.
But it also broke me wide open to the idea that my love life wasn’t working. And if I had this earnest belief that a deep, sexy, long-term commitment is possible, then I had to acquire the skills I was missing.
I put a stop to the merry-go-round of partners.
AND I COMMITTED TO MYSELF.
Alone and celibate for two years, I rebuilt my life, got to know myself, realized the patterns that I had been doing, and saw what was needed to be my own man – not a result of the faulty childhood programming acquired from my childhood caregivers and society.
I cracked the code and discovered a tried & true system to achieve hot, engaged, long-term relationship success, and now I am happily and ecstatically married for 16 years to the woman of my dreams.
Today, on the basis of my research, curriculum development and book, I am a professional relationship counsellor and sex educator, certified by The American College of Sexologists International (ACS).
I am utterly thankful that I made the tough choice of going inside. Because that gave me everything I could have ever wanted, on the outside.
The thriving career. The reliable partner. The bed-rocking sex. And the intimacy most people don’t believe possible.
AND IT CAN BE YOURS AS WELL.
Do you ever feel lost or paralyzed with your partner…stuck in fear of using your power?
That’s a sign you need this knowledge. And you need it right now.
Being clearer and more confident in any setting isn’t a narrative of narcissism, control, and selfishness.
It’s a powerful and catalytic way to lead from the front, be brave, take the danger head on, and nurture your loved ones.
MEN TODAY NEED TO LEARN HOW TO UNDERSTAND WOMAN AND BE SEXUALLY POWERFUL…
So the feminine energy has a safe space to create.
These three tools help you step into your conscious cocky energy without being a jerk and without being a doormat.
1. ACCEPT YOUR DESIRES.
If you pretend they don’t exist, others will too.
Your desires aren’t shameful feelings to hide away in a forgotten corner of your soul. They are sign-posts that guide
you to who you are meant to be.
And as such your desires – mental, emotional, and sexual – are sacred.
2. DEFINE BOUNDARIES.
Contrary to what you believe, being in constant “yes” mode isn’t going to bring you “closer” to your partner.
Clearly identify what you are comfortable doing. And what makes you feel like you are sacrificing yourself. Then
establish boundaries defining circumstances you wish to experience, and those you would like to avoid.
Protect your happiness. Even if it means not living up to stereotypes.
3. LEARN TO COMMUNICATE.
Being articulate has little to do with communicating from a place of authenticity and communicating with respect.
Just being articulate isn’t enough. Being authentic and empathetic makes you a man your partner wants, needs and depends on.
