Ask for what you want
Often we can fall into a routine and expect our partners to know what we want. Other times it can just be a lame excuse for acting childish. Take responsibility for your own needs and desires! You are an adult! Act like one! Your partner is not responsible for meeting your needs. YOU ARE. Your partner is there to love you, not to take care of you like you are a two year old.
Know your self. Know your own mind, and speak up and ask for what you want!
And be ready to hear a “no” and take it like an adult!