Downloads DownloadsConscious Cock WorkshopWant a Matrix-style power-upgrade of your relational and sexual toolkit in under an hour? In this mega blast of a workshop, I give an inspiring and liberating blast of modern sex-education, relationship strategy upgrades and AHA moments! Based on my book, Conscious Cock, this 1-hour workshop was recorded live at Envision festival 2020 in Uvita Costa Rica. Just enter your first name and email address into the form below and we will email the audio recording to you. All the best, Kristopher... Read more...The Secrets to Non-Creepy Sexual InvitationsDo you sit back and wait rather than initiate? Do you feel paralyzed post #metoo? Do you want to know how to make sensual/erotic/sexual invitations without being seen as creepy or sleazy? Do you want to be part of the solution and empower yourself at the same time? Learn how to make transparent invitations that are honorable, demonstrate integrity, build trust and open the door to a playground of possibilities with a potential partner/lover/playmate in this 45 minute workshop, recorded live at Envision Festival 2020 in Uvita Costa Rica. Just enter your first name and email address below and we will send you the audio recording for free by email. All the best, Kristopher... Read more...Yes No Maybe Exercise – Worksheet DownloadSpice up your relationship! For most couples, one or both of the partners often feel like they aren’t exploring as many of their fantasies and desires as they would like. Things can become stale & routine, and the spice and excitement wears off. One of the ways to spice things up a bit again is to do this exercise! Find out what your mutual erotic interests are! Download & print out the worksheet twice, and give your partner one copy to fill out while you fill out the other. Go down the list of activity possibilities and answer honestly if each one is something you are interested in doing, not interested in doing, or you might be interested but you aren’t sure yet. Just put a check in either the Yes, No or Maybe column. If you have any special thoughts about any specific activity, then write a note in the Notes column. Then when you are both done put your sheets side by side and highlight any activities that you both answered Yes to and any activities that one of you answered Yes to and the other answered Maybe to. Enjoy the new possibilities! Then have a fun lighthearded flirty discussion about which of the activities you’d like to try together first, and make a plan to do them soon! Let the excitement of trying new things together fill your relationship with joy and pleasure, and let yourself feel into the fact that by doing this exercise you and your partner are playing and exploring together! It’s super special to have a person that is interested in exploring new things with you, so show your appreciation and be giving and generous! ... Read more...Conquer Small Talk With These Great Conversation Starters!Ever found yourself stuck in traditional small talk with someone you just met while you really wanted to get to know them on a deeper level? Too often we just talk about the weather, what our work is, and where we are from — but those things don’t *really* teach us much that’s meaningful! Here are five tried and true conversation starters that are both safe to use and extremely powerful at breaking through the small talk and getting into a conversation of real substance. What are you really passionate about/interested in? What has been the best part of your day/week so far? What are you struggling with lately? What are some things on your bucket list? What are you really really good at? These kinds of open ended questions give the person an opening to share something real with you so that you can really get to know something important and have a chance of “clicking” with each other. Want more? Download a whole list of kickass conversation starters here:... Read more...PC Muscle Exercises (Kegels) for Men – Worksheet Download The single most effective thing that men can do to last longer in bed is do PC muscle exercises called kegels. This simple exercise increases stamina, erection quality, staying power and orgasm pleasure and reduces premature ejaculation and urinary incontinence. This free worksheet shows basic, intermediate and advanced pelvic floor muscle exercises to strengthen and tone the penile musculature.... Read more...How To Bring Up The Hard Stuff – Worksheet Download Sometimes there’s something we want or need to bring up but we just don’t know how to do it, and days turn into weeks. 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In this inclusive and sex-positive class for adults we will cover the Jedi tricks that literally destroy traditional relationship challenges by changing the rules of the game so that you can break free of patterns that don’t work and make your relationships amazing! You can listen to the audio recording of the workshop here: https://soundcloud.com/consciouscock/conscious-relationship-tools... Read more...Relationship Agreements Worksheet DownloadAll too often we get into a relationship and define ourselves as boyfriend/girlfriend or husband/wife without actually doing any homework to uncover what that means to each of us in terms of what are we actually agreeing to? In this video I show how not making agreements is one of the biggest mistakes most people make in relationships! Click play and unmute it. To help you come up with your agreements, I’ve made a useful worksheet that you can print out to help uncover what agreements you want with your partner–so that you can defuse potential relationship land mines before they blow up in your face! Just enter your email and click the blue “GET THE WORKSHEET” button below.... Read more...Boundaries & Consent: 6 Rules To Transform Your Life – Audio RecordingRecorded live at the 2018 Envision Festival in Costa Rica. Do you normally say “yes” to everything? Do you normally try to please or take care of everyone else? Are you tired of doing things that you don’t want to out of assumed politeness? Do you not get the type, quality and amount of touch or love that you want? Do you want your opinions and preferences to be heard and honored? In this inclusive and sex-positive one-hour class for adults we will teach six rules that transform your life by helping you to be fearless in your relationships and make your dreams a reality. Don’t keep fighting a losing battle! Change the rules of the game so that you can succeed and bring more satisfaction to your life & relationships.... Read more...How To Entice Your Partner To Have A Threesome (Without Beig A Jerk!) Have an EPIC threesome Don’t make the mistakes that most people do! Make it AMAZING! Most people have no idea how to get their partner to have a threesome without the use of alcohol. The dangers are numerous, and if you mess up at any of the steps of the threesome, it could cost you your relationship with your partner and your relationship with the third person. But it doesn’t have to be that way! Can you imagine a threesome in which your partner and you were both completely on board, excited, and the threesome brings you closer together emotionally while simultaneously super charging your sexual energy and desire for each other? It’s totally possible, but you have to know how to navigate these treacherous waters so that you don’t trigger panic, shock, or fear in your partner. You need to be able to bring up the ideas and discuss your fantasies in a way where they can hear you and respond in a positive manner! Most guys just blurt it out, and it wrecks the possibility of the threesome before the concept ever had a chance. Blunt isn’t good. You see, even though you may have been thinking about this for a while, the thought of a threesome may never have crossed your partner’s mind…EVER! So you have to understand how to bring it up in a way that 1) won’t damage your chances and 2) will open a doorway to communication with your partner where they can explore new sides of their sexuality with you becuase they feel safe and secure. It’s about respect, honesty, caring, and character. You need to demonstrate that you are a stand-up guy that they can trust with their intimate emotions and fears. Threesomes can be scary to people who have never done them before! You have to handle that fear in a way that shows that you can be counted on to take care of your partner’s heart and emotions. By showing that you deserve their trust and can handle the weight of the responsibility, you open your relationship to a world of sexual possibilities that most people never get to experience. These techniques are literally the keys to the kingdom–whether you want MMF or FFM! In this threesome guide, I guide you through all the pitfalls that most people make. You save time, energy, and will improve your relationship with your partner. It’s not hard, but you need to know what to do. As one of my clients said: “I didn’t know what I didn’t know!” No one had ever taught him how to talk about difficult topics in a non-threatening way with his partner. So he could never explore his sexual fantasies because he didn’t know how to bring it up without causing a fight with his partner! None of his friends had ever had a successful threesome, and he didn’t have anyone to teach him what to do and what not to do. By learning the amazing techniques that I share in this guide, he was able to bring up the idea with his partner without making her cringe or be shocked. He was able to turn the conversation into something that actually brought him and his partner closer together. It super-charged their sex life, and they were then able to explore their sexual fantasies together in the safety and security of their long-term relationship. That alone is worth its weight in gold! Most long-term couples have bland vanilla sex lives and don’t really share their fantasies and desires. Just learning how to communicate them is empowering to the relationship & gives it new life! But they open the door to the fantasies becoming a reality! And when you walk through that door in full honesty and disclosure with your partner, you get to enjoy fulfilling your sexual fantasies in the real world with a partner who is fully 100% on board and happy to sexplore with you. Let me tell you, there is nothing better than a sloppy juicy sexfest with your partner when you have no worries on your mind about it causing negative consequences in your relationship or life. You can put all your worries to rest and fully dive into the amazing sex that you’ve always wanted. It’s not hard, but you have to learn the tools. This guide is a quick short read, but it will empower you to take your sex-life to a whole new level. If you just want to keep looking at porn and having boring sex with your partner then don’t read it. Just keep on doing what you are doing. But if you want to make a positive change in your sex-life, then read the guide and implement the techniques in your relationship. They are simple communication techniques that help you to take a different approach to your partner that will be more successful that any other. So be bold. Be courageous, and take your partner by the hand and lead them into your sexual fantasies. If you don’t do it, it’s never going to happen. You have to take steps to change your life. Taking charge in this way shows your partner your masculine decisiveness, which is key to there being a sexual polarity between you. It’s about stepping up and being a man that makes her tingle with attraction and trust. It’s a powerful combination. It’s better to do it now than later. No bullsh*t. No Spam. No sales talk. This is a free no strings attached guide that I have written to help the men of the world to get more satisfaction out of their sex-lives while improving their relationship. After six years with my wife, I was desperate to infuse our relationship with a charge of new sexual energy. Our love life had become bland. We were always tired and never had sex. When we did, it was always short and quick, and I was withering inside. I wanted to feel the power of being totally turned on again. I wanted ro feel like a man again…to be able to ravish my partner and have her quiver and open to me. So I looked everywhere and read every book and article I could find until I unlocked the code. Then I implemented it in our lives, and now we’ve had three cum-exploding earth-shattering threesomes that have brought us closer together than ever before. And now our sex-lives are hotter than they ever have been in our entire lives. We get to share our fantasies and turn ons in bed with each other while fucking, and it is the hottest thing ever. The mind is the biggest errogenous zone. By implementing these techniques we now get SUPER HOT because our minds are fully sexcited by all the dirty little ideas and possibilities that are available to us. We want each other more than ever before, and whenever we have sex now she has multiple gushing orgasms and I have the time of my life! And now I want to share this system with you. Get C’Mon Honey, my FREE definitive guide on the best way to convince your partner to have a threesome, and start on your way to making your fantasies a reality!... Read more...
